Doing readings

I have decided I am going to start charging money if people require readings. It's not my ability you are paying for, but rather my time and energy. I don't think people realize how hard it is, and how draining. It takes me awhile just for a little question. TV shows make it seem so easy.

I'll explain my process. I always meditate and clear my mind, and sometimes it takes me like ten minutes to get my mind to shut up. Then I connect and it rather is smooth from there. But after  thorough reading, I do feel a little drained. It does take energy.

So when someone asks me even one question, which is more popularly, "Who's my soul mate, what is he like?". Seems like a small question, but I have to look and see, tap into his energy, find out things about him, personality and such. Because people aren't please if I literally answer. "His names with a G, like Gregory, and he's a decent person." The end. No, when they ask that they basically want to know everything, and a bit of what the relationship will be like. So that rather simple question turns into a lengthy reading, at least for me. I don't half ass it, is what I am saying.

And I have been busy lately. So if I have to take time out of my life, I think it's fair if its a small charge. And don't worry. I'm not ridiculous. I see some "psychics" who charge an insane amount. I'm more so, I'll figure out what you want to know, how in depth, and just quote it there. I realize not everyone has a lot of funds. I'm a single young woman on my own. I know that very well LOL. So I like to think I'm fair.

I used to not like charging, because I thought it wasn't cool to market this ability, and that I was put here to help. I still think I was put here to help, but now I kind of realize people took advantage of me for that. I've spent HOURS chatting with people, Telling them every little thing they wanted to know, getting absolutely mentally exhausted over them, and didn't get anything in return. I was fine with it, because I figured I was doing  good deed. Then I realized part of the reading wasn't even that important. Honestly, some of the stuff I thought they could have done without knowing. It wasn't important or relevant. And a lot of the time I don't even get a simple "Thank you" LOL. That bothers me. Don't get me wrong, lots do say thanks, but there's some out there that don't. They got what they wanted and go on there way. They are the ones who usually go, "So accurate!" then ditch. Another thing that kind of bothered me was I took time off from doing anything 'Psychic", and told a few people I wasn't doing readings at the moment. Going to be honest to explain. My mother lost her battle to breast cancer recently, and I explained that to people, that I just wasn't in the right mind frame to do the readings, and such. People literally respond like this, "I'm sorry for your loss...would you mind telling me about my future career, my soulmate, and how and when we meet?"....ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?! LOLOL. Like did you not hear me? My mom just died. I'm sorry but some people have no compassion or empathy. So selfish. How would you feel if someone was hounding you for their own needs when your mom just died, and you were wallowing in depression?

Think people, think!

So I have now made the final decision that you have to pay a small amount if you want me to do readings for you. I just think it's fair.

Anyway, just wanted to let you know. Because I have been getting some emails from here, asking.

Have a good one!